Yes it is a relief for me to have successfully been together with Rebecca for a month long. Very often in my past relationships, I can barely hang on to the girl for weeks before she chooses to dump me. It was often a struggle to keep the love going for each other. But thanks to the past failed relationships, I am able to learn from mistakes of each and do better for this relationship I have with Rebecca. Maybe it is true that when you find the “right one”, love should not be that difficult. Nevertheless, we do not expect the relationship to be quarrel-free. It will only be the matter of time when we face problems. So far the biggest challenge regarding her family is some-what solved. With both of us being believers in Christ, we are always reminding each other of how God defines love to be.

“Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

I remember those verses by hard and always speak and believe that love is that way. So much so that I even designed a wallpaper for my phone to remind myself.

Yesterday, 5 March 2010 was our first month anniversary. It was not celebrated in some huge grand way. But a simple lunch with her at White Tangerine Cafe. Located just opposite from our place at Kovan-Paya Lebar Community Centre. I read about this place from hungrygowhere.com. With just a price of $6, we were able to enjoy a complete set lunch that comes with a bowl of mushroom soup, main course and a drink. $6 only if you are a senior citizen or student. Now that is the great benefit of being student! And that is also why I want to be a student for as long as I can. :) I wanted to order dessert but because she could not finish half of her baked rice, I had to finish it for her. Hence I was so full that I did not order my dessert anymore.

The road ahead is still very long but I am falling deeper in love each day! Is it falling or stepping in love actually? :P

“Love you dear!“

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